Want to stop going through the motions and actually have the life you dreamed of? Try this.
Did you assume that your life would be magically perfect once you finished training?
I know I did.
I fully believed that once I graduated from my fellowship and became an attending, everything in my life would just fall right into place. Somehow my finances would be simple, my marriage would be great, I would be an amazing mother with well-behaved children, and things would be easy.
So many of us have this …