To the quiet physician who keeps her head down and powers through her days while secretly calculating the ratio of BS-to-be-tolerated versus time-to-retirement:
I have some tough love for you.
You are in a toxic relationship.
How do I know? I’ll let you in on my secret: I was in a psychologically and emotionally manipulative marriage for over twenty years.
At the start of our relationship, I felt blissfully lucky …