Dealing with my patients’ losses. And the losses in my own life.

My patient sat in front of me, silent.  She was a beautiful, elderly woman, always well dressed in bright, matching outfits, and not a single hair out of place.  Her lipstick was perfectly applied.  She normally had a quick wit, joking about how she might drop a few knickknacks from my office into her handbag on her way out.

Not today.  Today her tears flowed.  Today was the day she grieved …

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