Skip to content
  • About
  • Contact
  • Contribute
  • Book
  • Careers
  • Podcast
  • Recommended
  • Speaking
  • All
  • Physician
  • Practice
  • Policy
  • Finance
  • Conditions
  • .edu
  • Patient
  • Meds
  • Tech
  • Social
  • Video
    • All
    • Physician
    • Practice
    • Policy
    • Finance
    • Conditions
    • .edu
    • Patient
    • Meds
    • Tech
    • Social
    • Video
    • About
    • Contact
    • Contribute
    • Book
    • Careers
    • Podcast
    • Recommended
    • Speaking

The key to medicine is to love our patients

Edwin Leap, MD
Physician
January 9, 2015
Share
Tweet
Share

shutterstock_223911598

I have issues with the customer satisfaction paradigm, but it’s not generally hard to make patients happy. Sometimes, though, it can be nearly impossible. It all depends on our own inner life as physicians and human beings. The key to medicine, to being a beloved physician, is to love our patients.

This can be a tall order. Human beings are remarkably difficult to love. They are often angry, uncommunicative, cruel, manipulative, and dishonest. (And that’s just the doctors!) Humans resist love almost as fiercely as they desire it. They push one another away with profanity. They anger each other with attitude. They pick until someone lashes out. They remind us of our own human frailty.

For the full article, please visit Emergency Medicine News.

Edwin Leap is an emergency physician who blogs at edwinleap.com and is the author of The Practice Test and Life in Emergistan.  This article originally appeared in Emergency Medicine News.

Image credit: Shutterstock.com

Prev

MOC is medicine's self-inflicted wound

January 9, 2015 Kevin 46
…
Next

Nutrition research has a huge blind spot

January 9, 2015 Kevin 2
…

Tagged as: Emergency Medicine

Post navigation

< Previous Post
MOC is medicine's self-inflicted wound
Next Post >
Nutrition research has a huge blind spot

ADVERTISEMENT

More by Edwin Leap, MD

  • The emergency department crisis: Why patient boarding is dangerous

    Edwin Leap, MD
  • Hospitals at a breaking point: Lack of staff and resources leave ERs in chaos

    Edwin Leap, MD
  • Trapped in a cauldron of suffering, medical staff are weary

    Edwin Leap, MD

More in Physician

  • Physician work-life balance and family

    Francisco M. Torres, MD
  • Love and loss in the oncology ward

    Dr. Damane Zehra
  • The weight of genetic testing in a family

    Rebecca Thompson, MD
  • A surgeon’s view on RVUs and moral injury

    Rene Loyola, MD
  • Reclaiming moral ambition in health care

    Mick Connors, MD
  • When language barriers become a medical emergency

    Monzur Morshed, MD and Kaysan Morshed
  • Most Popular

  • Past Week

    • A doctor’s letter from a federal prison

      L. Joseph Parker, MD | Physician
    • When language barriers become a medical emergency

      Monzur Morshed, MD and Kaysan Morshed | Physician
    • A surgeon’s view on RVUs and moral injury

      Rene Loyola, MD | Physician
    • Why doctors are losing the health care culture war

      Rusha Modi, MD, MPH | Policy
    • A cancer doctor’s warning about the future of medicine

      Banu Symington, MD | Physician
    • How retraining the physician mindset can boost resilience and joy in medicine [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
  • Past 6 Months

    • Rethinking the JUPITER trial and statin safety

      Larry Kaskel, MD | Conditions
    • The ignored clinical trials on statins and mortality

      Larry Kaskel, MD | Conditions
    • How one physician redesigned her practice to find joy in primary care again [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • I passed my medical boards at 63. And no, I was not having a midlife crisis.

      Rajeev Khanna, MD | Physician
    • The silent disease causing 400 amputations daily

      Xzabia Caliste, MD | Conditions
    • Why medicine needs a second Flexner Report

      Robert C. Smith, MD | Physician
  • Recent Posts

    • How retraining the physician mindset can boost resilience and joy in medicine [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • How AI on social media fuels body dysmorphia

      STRIPED, Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health | Policy
    • Physician work-life balance and family

      Francisco M. Torres, MD | Physician
    • Why hesitation over the HPV vaccine threatens public health and equity

      Ayesha Khan | Conditions
    • What psychiatry teaches us about professionalism, loss, and becoming human

      Hannah Wulk | Education
    • How Gen Z is reshaping health care through DIY approaches and digital tools [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast

Subscribe to KevinMD and never miss a story!

Get free updates delivered free to your inbox.


Find jobs at
Careers by KevinMD.com

Search thousands of physician, PA, NP, and CRNA jobs now.

Learn more

View 6 Comments >

Founded in 2004 by Kevin Pho, MD, KevinMD.com is the web’s leading platform where physicians, advanced practitioners, nurses, medical students, and patients share their insight and tell their stories.

Social

  • Like on Facebook
  • Follow on Twitter
  • Connect on Linkedin
  • Subscribe on Youtube
  • Instagram

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

  • Most Popular

  • Past Week

    • A doctor’s letter from a federal prison

      L. Joseph Parker, MD | Physician
    • When language barriers become a medical emergency

      Monzur Morshed, MD and Kaysan Morshed | Physician
    • A surgeon’s view on RVUs and moral injury

      Rene Loyola, MD | Physician
    • Why doctors are losing the health care culture war

      Rusha Modi, MD, MPH | Policy
    • A cancer doctor’s warning about the future of medicine

      Banu Symington, MD | Physician
    • How retraining the physician mindset can boost resilience and joy in medicine [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
  • Past 6 Months

    • Rethinking the JUPITER trial and statin safety

      Larry Kaskel, MD | Conditions
    • The ignored clinical trials on statins and mortality

      Larry Kaskel, MD | Conditions
    • How one physician redesigned her practice to find joy in primary care again [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • I passed my medical boards at 63. And no, I was not having a midlife crisis.

      Rajeev Khanna, MD | Physician
    • The silent disease causing 400 amputations daily

      Xzabia Caliste, MD | Conditions
    • Why medicine needs a second Flexner Report

      Robert C. Smith, MD | Physician
  • Recent Posts

    • How retraining the physician mindset can boost resilience and joy in medicine [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • How AI on social media fuels body dysmorphia

      STRIPED, Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health | Policy
    • Physician work-life balance and family

      Francisco M. Torres, MD | Physician
    • Why hesitation over the HPV vaccine threatens public health and equity

      Ayesha Khan | Conditions
    • What psychiatry teaches us about professionalism, loss, and becoming human

      Hannah Wulk | Education
    • How Gen Z is reshaping health care through DIY approaches and digital tools [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast

MedPage Today Professional

An Everyday Health Property Medpage Today
  • Terms of Use | Disclaimer
  • Privacy Policy
  • DMCA Policy
All Content © KevinMD, LLC
Site by Outthink Group

The key to medicine is to love our patients
6 comments

Comments are moderated before they are published. Please read the comment policy.

Loading Comments...