It is time for us to succeed by being the best that we can be

It is time for us to succeed by being the best that we can be

According to George Orwell, “serious sport has nothing to do with fair play. It is bound up with hatred, with jealousy, with boastfulness, with disregard for all rules, and with sadistic pleasure in witnessing violence: in other words it is war minus the shooting.”

Ok … sounds pretty much like the Super Bowl, but the Tour de France? Lance Armstrong? Ergogenic aids? Cancer survival? Brand and image issues? Mark McGwire, Sammy Sosa, the Rocket Man, Andy Pettitte? Oprah? Really?

It seems somehow reasonable to use the issue of sports morality as a metaphor of our sociocultural climate and direction … you know: cheating and getting caught, personal hubris and arrogance, public attitudes and mores, rhetorical dissonance, Republican versus Democrat … a sports allegory lending insight perhaps into these troubled times and how sports figures, like politicians, are an extension of reality.

That actually may reflect what we’ve become, what we seemingly want to be, and what we accept and admire as “the new norm.”

What has happened to us, to our society, to these times, to our idealism, and to our respect for a code of conduct? What has become of our rules, our integrity, and our personal dignity that we have to bend all the rules, move the goal posts, win at any price, disavow any personal responsibility, and claim a “rights” argument in order to “win”? At whose expense and at what price?

Lily Tomlin got this one right. “The trouble with the rat race,” she asserted, “is that even if you win, you’re still a rat.”

It was once the notion that participation in sports and moral development were intimately related. It was called “sportsmanship.” Plato felt that only an athlete could blend mind and body into a perfect functional unity.

In the American Annals of Education and Instruction of 1833, it was advanced that the character of one’s students could best be assessed and studied on the playground. In this context, the teacher might be able to mold their characters effectively. The value of defeat — the ability to handle failure — was considered critical for encouraging the drive toward success. Indeed, without failure, success was meaningless.

So what is the message of the scoreless baseball games now an intimate part of the progressive middle school curricula? That no one should “feel-like-a-loser”? How do we teach our children the lessons of frustration?

Hard work as its own reward and faith in the system seem to be pretty muddled messages these days. At least according to Armstrong’s example. But then again he has had some pretty powerful antecedents.

The effects of steroids on the athletic performance of a gifted athlete operating at a high level of training have never been “officially” measured or sanctioned. Steroid use however has been rampant and widespread in both amateur and professional venues. And the veneer of fairness went away long before Arnold was governator, Clinton or Nixon were presidents, Spitzer or (Tonya) Harding were TV personalities, or John Edwards was “Father of the Year.”

Mauro diPasquale, MD, a Canadian sports medicine physician who has written extensively on androgenic ergogenics and performance enhancement has stated that the advantages gained by very gifted athletes would probably have emerged without the drugs, but at a training load and effort that would indeed be superhuman.

But it was Armstrong the athlete who defeated a field of similarly endowed (and probably doped) athletes.

The tragic consensus and the cynical media message is that steroids did advance the brand and the success of Lance Armstrong, but that it just wasn’t very smart of him to get caught — and that most of his fellow competitors had probably used ergogenics as well.

The dollar figure for “lost endorsements” is $30 million — that’s just endorsements. And the messaging, the 139 million hits on Google, the Twitter messaging, the attention on Oprah … well, all this publicity could not readily qualify as subtle. Perhaps, along with the rest of what passes for pop culture, all these “outrages” have actually become the desired outcome. These results are not vague, quiet, subtle, unexpected, or hidden.

So what should be the message?

We have grown up with Popeye’s spinach and Dumbo’s feather, hopeful that success can be achieved by technology, by trick, by lottery, by luck, or by magic. Forget about hard work, we teach our children, look for the shortcut.

We have somehow inherited a bizarre and uncomfortable legacy in the process, revising the definition of success. It was the whispered mantra of the ’90s. Greed is good, big is better, there is no such thing as bad publicity, and self-interest trumps all other values. We all seem to act to one degree or another without the slightest objection or comment about these new Ten Commandments.

Because, perhaps, that is what we have come to believe in this postmodern age when we have removed God from the classroom and our personal lives. We no longer need rules, miracles, or divine intervention to explain our Universe and lives.

Why bother with the difficult when the emotional larder is filled, when success by any means is the rule, when ends justify means? And why sacrifice anything, if there is no motivation, no need, and little profit? What does it mean to assume personal responsibility? To regard respect for truth as an inviolable axiom?

Self-respect must be sacrificed in this mix. And Lance Armstrong has shown the way. And our media will place his achievements on a visible, noisy, and well-lit central stage for the entire world to see and worship. And they will, at least those who continue to be mesmerized by this theater.

We have abandoned our guidelines, our honesty, and our goals because of moral expediency and unmerciful self-interest. We spin. We have welcomed winners, rejected losers, and broken for the commercials without regard to or thought of consequence for so long now that it is automatic … and we have taught our children to do likewise.

It may be too late and too far into this journey of hypocrisy to see what is happening or to restore a reasonable moral compass. But in case no one noticed, there are those in the world who would want to see this level of Romanesque drama as our swan song: that we may never be able to discuss our differences nor again act in a deliberate and honest manner with one another to solve problems of mutual concern. Perpetually cheating, like our sports heroes.

It is time for us to wake up and succeed by being the best that we can be. No excuses. No cheating.

If this world is an arena for soul making, it is time for us capitalists to show that we can pursue that goal with the same tenacity that we pursue all those things that just rust.

And we must teach that message to our children. Perhaps that change in attitude can recapture some of the more intangible and ethereal rewards of living in a free society.

Jeffrey Hall Dobken is Assistant Clinical Professor of Pediatric Immunology and Allergy, and certified bioethicist, Weill Cornell School of Medicine.

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  • Homeless

    So it’s OK to expect a miracle from God but not a magic feather?

  • http://www.twitter.com/alicearobertson Alice Robertson

    It would appear New
    Wave of secularism
    and humanism are on
    display.
    A culture that rejects God and lacks no common foundation except following secular humanism that means every man decides for himself what is helpful…and therein lies the problem…our foundation is our own ego and what seems right in our own eyes.
    The Lance
    Armstrong debacle
    should stand as a
    mirror to today’s
    parents and youth.
    He is a
    reflection…a
    product of our “need
    to succeed” culture
    that is, supposedly,
    the most
    narcissistic
    ever…Lance
    Armstrong is our
    mirror at all we
    deny in our culture
    and our hearts. A
    culture that lives one way while denouncing another.
    It is as
    Orwell
    shared…intended to
    produce those
    fearful of mind
    think (which isn’t
    really mind
    think…but..well…:).
    It creates those
    who think separation
    of church and state
    was intended to put
    boundaries on the
    church, when it was
    intended to allow
    the church freedom
    from
    government…not
    vica versa.

    So…Dr. Dobken’s
    quote from Lily
    Tomlin about a rat
    winning a race
    between rats is a
    bulls eye. Lance
    Armstrong is our rat
    because he is us. A
    nation where
    cheating by teachers
    on standardized
    tests is often
    encouraged by the
    administration. And
    the parents like it
    because they have
    bragging rights and
    test scores
    matter….my God do they
    matter in the realms
    of smaller families
    intent on a relative
    type of success that
    has been
    redefined…where a
    child’s worth is
    based on his test
    score. And those
    scores create money,
    jobs, careers for
    the
    students…opportunities.
    College and high
    school
    students…and since
    we are on a medical
    board we can’t deny
    even doctors have
    been caught using
    Adderall and even
    odd glasses to
    cheat, among other
    tools to cheat on
    boards…again a
    reflection of
    college and high
    school classes where
    they realized their
    ambition was more
    important than
    morals and
    integrity.

    Steroid use? Some
    parents go to
    doctors demanding
    drugs for their
    child. Some
    teachers and
    parents, with
    doctors help, create
    addicts. And we
    have the arrogance
    to proclaim Lance
    Armstrong a loser?
    He just got caught
    because otherwise
    our actions don’t
    match our words. And we see so clearly how wrong Lance Armstrong was but let’s not place the Scarlet Letter on him too quickly, because surely a little introspection should precede our outrage?

    • w_km

      Haha you simply don’t get it. Lance Armstrong’s decisions were not the result of our culture. It was his early beginnings and circumstantial life that turned him into a competitive person, not unlike any other talented human being. Armstrong trained harder than the rest because he was competitively driven. Like Michael Jordan, he wanted to shut the skeptics up, dominate the competition, and be number one. Such determination does not come from others’ expectations, but rather from the desire to exceed everyone’s expectations.

      But Lance also dug himself a hole because he choose to. I applaud him for finally making the right decision. It came as no surprise to anyone who’s ridden competitively or followed the sport, and actually came earlier than I thought it would. He will always be a 7-time tour champ in my book.

      • http://www.twitter.com/alicearobertson Alice Robertson

        You applaud someone who had to be forced into a confession? Of course he was competitive…and let’s add greedy, deceptive, and a liar. So you think Lance can wear victim spandex and get applause for a job well done? I think you proved the point of the article very well:)

        • w_km

          I’m not applauding the bad things he’s done. But I’m also not forgetting the good. And no, he’s not a victim at all! I’m only saying that he dug the hole that he now sits in, not our “need to succeed culture.”

          I also refuse to sit on my high perch above Lance as he sits in his hole. Instead of kicking him in the face after he finally admits his wrongdoings, we could give him due credit for attempting to rethink his entire life and maybe offer support for genuine change. When and how are people with mental illness ever supposed to forgive themselves if nobody else does?

          The truth is that entire era of competitive sport was plagued with PED use. In Armstrong’s shoes, most humans would have made the exact same choices. Actually most of us would have quit before ever winning a race. I just wish non-cyclists wouldn’t eternally condemn anyone, even the “greedy, deceptive,..liar” himself.

          • http://www.twitter.com/alicearobertson Alice Robertson

            I agree with much of what you wrote, but it’s still blaming the culture. And we are, indeed, the “culture”. In all it’s vain glory, and it’s the reason I felt that Lance Armstrong is our mirror. He is “us”. We indulge in loopholes, quick fixes to attain riches, glory…I mean the truth is Lance Armstrong wanted success and all that comes with it. And he fudged in a way that shows great effort was put into it and he almost got off with it. I am actually “kicking” society more than Lance Armstrong, although he tried in vain to get off with a terrible practice (and repeatedly used what was available legally and illegally…and his arrogance nudged a scientist into catching him). Lance Armstrong is more like the vigilante groups that claim the ends justifies the means, and maybe sometimes it does. If Lance had did a Francis Assissi with his money I would be more inclined to have mercy on him. Don’t you sorta think he will redeem himself, write a book, donate more to charity and just be a better person from coming clean? My problem is most of the people (the media particularly) vilifying him are usually guilty of the same behavior on less scales. Let’s at least learn from his bad example and stop the hypocrisy that vanity often justifies.

  • http://twitter.com/wsliauw Winston Liauw

    Ironically his most important performance enhancing drug was probably cisplatin

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