The secrets to a fulfilling medical practice are often paradoxical

“Great interview, darling, but there’s one question you didn’t quite answer.”

My wife is my best coach. She thought the question about a busy orthopedic surgeon not having time to relate to his patients deserved a better response.

My interviewer, a psychiatrist, said he once accompanied a surgeon friend on his Saturday morning round of post-op cases. On the drive home, he challenged his friend with the observation that many of the patients were anxious and frightened.

“You just ignored their concerns in the hurry to get the round finished,” he said.

“Yes,” admitted the surgeon, “I know I’m not meeting all their needs but if I stopped to talk to them all, I wouldn’t have any time left for my family. What do you expect me to do?”

The interview was about compassionate caring. My first response to this question was the scientific evidence relating anxiety and stress to surgical outcomes. A skin incision takes twice as long to heal in stressed subjects. Moreover, stressed and fearful subjects are three times as likely to succumb to infection.

“So it’s likely your surgeon colleague is creating extra work for himself when he ignores the emotional wellbeing of his patients,” I said.

I then talked about the importance of investing a little time up front with each patient, to build trust and rapport. The doctors who are skilled at making this human connection save a lot of time. Plus it’s a more satisfying way to practice.

In my interview, I forgot about the research using video-taped interviews of doctor-patient consultations. Patients give us lots of cues about unanswered concerns. The doctors skilled at noticing and responding to patient cues had on average shorter consultations than those who brushed them aside. Responding effectively to patient concerns saves time.

By this time, I started to get off-topic in the interview. I didn’t get back to the reality of this orthopedic surgeon’s practice. Here are two better answers.

Dr. Stephen Beeson, a family doctor in California, is one of the happiest doctors I know. His patients love him too – his patient satisfaction ratings are in the top 1% for the USA.

Beeson has an unusual practice: he gives his personal mobile phone number to every one of his patients.

“Feel free to call me,” he says.

Insane! Doesn’t he have a family life? When I tell my colleagues to give their personal phone number to patients, they think I am mad. Patients would never let them alone.

Actually, Beeson’s phone hardly ever rings. And when it does, it’s usually something really important. For his patients, just knowing he’s there, and that he cares, is enough.

Beeson is an outstanding physician leader. Many of the clues to his happiness are found in his book, Practicing Excellence A Physician’s Manual to Exceptional Healthcare.

The secrets to happy and fulfilling medical practice are often paradoxical.

The more barriers built between doctor and the patient, the more they will demand of you. It’s as if you’re not really connecting, so patients remain unsatisfied.

My experience is that when you take down your barriers and defenses, patients made fewer demands on you, not more. And they’ll do a better job of helping themselves.

One final observation. Most orthopedic surgeons have massive incomes, compared to the national average. What would happen if my interviewer’s friend reduced his caseload and his income?

He could take every Friday off and not have to do a Saturday round. He’d spend more time with his family and would probably be a better, and happier doctor. He might even have time to talk to his patients.

Robin Youngson is an anesthesiologist who blogs at HeartTalk.

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  • BAARN1

    The principle at work here in the successful practice is “common sense” and applies to every helping profession, including nurses, teachers, therapists and the remaining servers of human kind.   People may not remember what you said but they sure DO remember how they felt in your care/company.  I would probably move to have Dr Beeson as my Family physician.  In addition, as an RN, I’d love to work by his side to serve the community.    This article is so very refreshing!!! Thanks

  • SidewaysShrink

    This is the way I run my psychiatry practice: patients can text, phone, and email me. In return they must follow up with a certain amount of regularity: a very few patients come in monthly for a half hour session. Most come in more often. With this kind of access patients do not call in crisis mode very often or with tempests in teacups. I agree that if you meet their needs and make yourself available for more, they act less “needy”. Standing at arms length from our fellow humans while we provide health “care” for them can provoke anxiety in any patient who feels vulnerable from illness.

  • http://www.thehappymd.com/ Dike Drummond MD

    Thanks for this post Dr.. Youngson – In my experience with overstressed and burned out doctors … here is the cause of what you saw with the busy orthopod.

    He is simply exhibiting the same survival mechanisms he used to get through his training. What most people don’t understand – until I point it out – is that doctors are supremely conditioned in med school and residency. We develop a set of survival behaviors in that formative decade that resemble a
    Superhero
    Workaholic
    Emotion Free
    Lone Ranger
    And we see ourselves surrounded by danger … medical errors, missed diagnoses and “malpractice just waiting to happen”

    Once we are out in practice the survival mechanism continues … because our only paradigm of success is to be “BUSY”. The Result?

    1 in 3 doctors are burned out on any given office day worldwide regardless of specialty (on average) and we continue to cope with survival mechanisms that were never meant to be a way to live a rich and fulfilling life. The orthopod builds barriers to keep his patients out … because that is what he learned to do in residency TO SURVIVE.

    Now that he is out of training and has a family … the thing that is needed is to think of Thriving, not just Surviving. A case in point is your example of Dr. Beeson. Clearly he is focused on thriving and has been able to drop his conditioning he used to survive training.

    Here are the questions I find that help:
    When you notice you are doing something in your practice (or your larger life) based on FEAR and avoiding a negative outcome … ask …
    Where did this behavior and this fear come from?
    Is it real at this time?
    What do I really want to happen here?
    If I focus on thriving … rather than just surviving … what would I do differently?

    My two cents,

    Dike
    Dike Drummond MD
    http://www.thehappymd.com

  • LastoftheZucchiniFlowers

    I pray this is the trend in the newly minted and moving AWAY from my generation of providers who are sadly, defined in the ‘busy orthopod’s’ behavior. In my day, we distanced ourselves from patients lives and sought to do our best for them, but would NEVER have given our phone numbers out! (Anathema to everything we were taught!-maybe we were taught WRONG!) The world of today is NOTHING like the medical school of 1969 and new physicians and surgeons can morph accordingly. My fervent wish is that they’ll be like the guy who takes Friday off and gives out his phone #.

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