The power of words in cancer care

The power of words in cancer careIn oncology, there are certain words and phrases that (no matter how carefully said) suck the air out of a room, like “you have cancer,” “you’ve recurred,” “incurable,” “terminal,” and “hospice.” Such phrases require careful consideration before they are spoken, and most (if not all) oncologists understand the power of these words, and use them carefully. However, there are others that can be as powerful, yet remain in common usage in our field.

I still remember my fellowship days at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center (MSKCC) like they were yesterday. When I decided to pursue a career specializing in women’s cancers, I joined the medical gynecologic oncology clinic of Dr. Paul Sabbatini. In addition to being an amazing clinical researcher, he is a brilliant clinician and, as a fellow, I always sought to impress him.

On one clinic day, I recall seeing a woman in her 60s with ovarian cancer. She had recurred despite treatment. I went in alone, talked with her, examined her, and then presented her to Paul.

“So, what do you think we should do now?” he asked.

“Well, since she failed this regimen, I think she needs to start on a new salvage treatment. What about a combination?” I recalled saying. Paul’s expression changed, and I still remember it like it was yesterday. He looked at me kindly, but with a degree of exasperation.

“Don–if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that people do not fail chemotherapy. The chemotherapy didn’t work, but no one failed; she didn’t and I didn’t. And, we don’t salvage people. Salvage is what you do with scrap metal and trash.”

I remembered being taken aback by this, primarily because I felt he was criticizing the common language of oncologists. “Salvage” and “failure on treatment” were words and phrases I had heard as a medical resident, and they were phrases used everywhere in oncology. Still, I respected Paul and his experience, and though I did not understand what he was talking about at the time, I was more careful during our clinical discussions after that.

When I completed my fellowship, I was lucky enough to join the Developmental Therapeutics/Gynecologic Oncology service at MSKCC, and counted Paul as a colleague. In my first year as an attending, I took care of a young patient with ovarian cancer. She had just relapsed from first-line treatment and we had discussed where to go next.

“I am hopeful treatment can help and prevent the cancer from causing you symptoms,” I explained. “Despite the failure of first-line treatment, there are many more options for you.”

The words had barely left my mouth when the lesson Paul had tried to teach me came back in full force. My patient, already scared about her recurrence, became teary and turned away from me.

“You make it sound like this was my fault, like I did something wrong!” she said. “I’m sorry I failed chemotherapy, if that’s what you think, and I’m sorry I disappointed you.”

I was stunned. It was never my intention to place “blame” on something so devastating as a cancer recurrence, and I certainly did not mean to imply that she had failed. I remember using the rest of the visit apologizing, ensuring my patient she had done nothing wrong, and that she did not fail chemotherapy, but rather- chemotherapy failed her. These many years later, I still consider this encounter a watershed moment in my career as an oncologist.

Since then I have been sensitive to words and phrases, particularly when they are used in reference to patients, treatment, and circumstances surrounding recurrent disease. I cringe when I hear someone referred for “salvage treatment” or how its “too bad she failed therapy.” Unfortunately, even today, it is still terminology that is part of the lexicon of oncology.

A quick search on clinicaltrials.gov using the search terms FAILURE and CANCER resulted in 145 actively accruing studies, 20 of which had failure in the title. In addition, a search in Pubmed.org using the same terms resulted in 54 papers with FAILURE in their title, published in the last 5 years. While these overall estimates are low, I suspect that in our everyday conversations, it is far more pervasive.

The language of medicine is a special one, and in the context of a serious medical illness, this is especially true. The way we communicate matters and even when we think our audience is our peers, in the era of social media, we must be cognizant of the wider reach of our words, our lectures, our publications, and our presentations. While our colleagues may understand what we mean when we refer to treatment as “salvage therapy,” the same may not be said of how our patients or the public hear it.

Don S. Dizon is an oncologist who blogs at ASCO Connection, where this post originally appeared.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=614010948 Earl Smith

    I am a relative newbie–finished my fellowship in Palliative Care in 2009–and I am happy to report that I never even heard of “salvage” chemo until about a year ago.  So while I am still teaching residents to say “the treatment didn’t work” instead of “he failed treatment”, I have only ever heard of “salvage” once or twice ever.  Things are getting better, and it’s thanks to workers like Dr. Dizon. 

    • drdondizon

      Dear Earl, Thanks for your post! Teaching early on in training will definitely help, and professionals like you will also help change the dialogue as well. Be well! DSD

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Carol-Ann-Farside/100000438833715 Carol Ann Farside

    It is hard enough on patients when doctors tell them there is nothing more they can do for them and refer them to hospice. I recently have heard of 3 cases where the doctor, trying to prepare the patient for end of life events, tells them “eventually you will just fall asleep and not wake up.” These words rob patients of the peaceful respite of a simple nap. Some experience panic attacks. Others need family members by their side each time they are tired enough to close their eyes. It is a cruel and inaccurate way of describing the reality of the end of life. Patients enter a coma-like state where they can hear what is being said to them and around them, I am told by hospice nurses. Choosing the right words can make a major difference

    • drdondizon

      Dear Carol Ann, Thank you for your thoughts. There are numerous examples of how words matter. I am hoping to stimulate this discussion professionally but also show that we as oncologists do understand as well. Your note above strikes home with me. I am guilty of describing death like that at times, and never thought about what panic it could cause. See, even folks like me have much to learn from others. But then, when do we ever stop learning? Best always, DSD

  • karen3

    Can you imagine how cruel and despicable, though would be the doctors who treated my mother. They documented that she had lung cancer but refused to tell the family, refused to tell her and refused to tell the facility they were transferring her to.  Delayed the diagnosis until it was too late.  Glad to hear that there are at least a few doctors with a conscience.

    • drdondizon

      Dear Karen, It is stories like yours that fills me with sadness. I am sorry that you went through this, and above all else, am sad about the care your mom received as you have described. In academic oncology we have a very serious responsibility and one that I hold dear- to train the next generation of oncologists in communication- and to speak with conviction, hope, honesty, and compassion. All patients deserve this. DSD

  • http://www.thehappymd.com/ Dike Drummond MD

    It is important to recognize that every time you see a patient in the office they are hypnotized. What I mean is that they are “in a state of heightened awareness where they are open to suggestion”. This is especially true when you are talking about cancer and anything less than a complete remission.

    Your words are not just words. They are suggestions. The patient is doing more than just listening … they are tuned into your subconscious and energetic communication at the same time. Every word is a piece of your treatment and will effect the patients energy and outcome. This goes above and beyond the placebo effect. Your words are an integral part of your treatment and care for the patient. They directly effect the patients response to every other therapeutic intervention you might order.

    One of the “4 agreements” Is “Be impeccable with your word” – think very carefully AND consult your feelings before you say anything. As in all of medicine “do no harm”.

    My two cents and personal experience as physician and patient.

    Dike
    Dike Drummond MD
    http://www.thehappymd.com

    • drdondizon

      Dear Dike,
      Thank you for your post. Words are certainly quite powerful and it still amazes me how a conversation (medical and otherwise) can influence your mood and determine whether you have a good or a bad day. While I am not so sure I agree with the suggestion that patients are “hypnotized” by their doctors, one thing is certain- they can sense when you are not being forthright, even though they may not confront you with it. 
      Ultimately, your advice is a good one though and I will take it to heart as should everyone else- Be IMPECCABLE with your words. 
      I hope to hear from you again. DSD

      • http://www.thehappymd.com/ Dike Drummond MD

         Hey Don — -here is an important distinction — patients are NOT “hypnotized by their doctors” they are in a highly suggestible state whenever they are seeing their doctor. They are in a hypnotic state whenever they are in your office or the hospital.

        We sit in the medical office all day. It is normal for us and we are not sick, scared or hurting when we are there. For the patient … visiting the doc is a big deal … even if for just a  physical. THEY are in a focused state of attention where they are open to suggestion whenever they are in your office. Not just me saying that … massive literature to back me up here.

        What you don’t learn  in med school is that your words are much more powerful than you know in this setting … they are suggestions to the patient whether you want them to be or not. SO when you are giving a patient a shot … and you say “this will feel like a bee sting” .. IT WILL. And when you say “this will be a little bit of orange and some purple” … they won’t feel a thing.

        Doctors words are very powerful. Even more important for us to be impeccable AND it is the first thing that flies out the window when docs are burned out.

        Dike
        Dike Drummond MD
        http://www.thehappymd.com

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/GMIU3BI4QSJZ2IVUC7XKQKXSFI Daniel Beegan

    I will be forever grateful to Nicollete Erickson MD, onconcolgist at Central Maine Hospital and Rumford Hospital, who told my wife no matter how aggressive the intervention, she would have about three months to live. My wife decided to go with Hospice and we had a couple very good months together, and then Bea, my wife, got her wish to die at home. Thanks Doctor Erickson for your honesty

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