Your patient is crying, what to do?

October 29, 2008

Do not reflexively refer the patient to a psychiatrist, that’s the take home point.

Great advice from Maria, who is a psychiatrist herself:

That hasty referral sends the message that (1) it’s not okay to cry, (2) I don’t want to see you cry (or I can’t tolerate seeing you cry), and (3) there must be something wrong with you since you are crying. (”Not only do you have Medical Condition X, but you might be mentally ill, too!”)

Here’s what you should do instead.



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{ 1 comment }

1 Anonymous October 29, 2008 at 6:13 pm

If you can’t handle crying with equanimity, go into a no-patient contact field. Some guys around here (and even some gals) freak out if patients cry and not just refer them, but involuntarily COMMIT them to psychiatry!

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