Dating a doctor

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I swear I just wanted to get laid, not become a doctor’s girlfriend. As a female, when you tell others that you are dating a doctor, they kind of give you that smirk. You know, “that smirk” that suggests financial security and a possible lift in the social class ladder. Urgh. It’s so far from the truth when your partner is a 2nd year resident.

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Anonymous
How far American womanhood has fallen? No wonder we are breeding ourselves out of existence and don’t seem to remember how to rear or bear children adequately?
Ashamed to be seen as a husband hunter, protesting instead, that she is a mere slut.
Husband hunting dear, is an honorable and ancient proffesion upon which rests the pillars of civilization.
Doc’s Girl
Oh, dear.
If you took the time to actually READ my blog, you would learn that I’m actually, in fact, not a slut. It was a simple, humorous tag implying that when I met my boyfriend, I was not looking for a relationship for a few reasons:
1. My parents were recently deceased and recovering from that meant that I actually had enough sense not to get into a relationship with someone because I wasn’t quite emotionally available. Find me some women that actually have enough sense for that.
2. I didn’t want a relationship also because my number one person in my life, and still #1 in my life is my 15 year brother that I am guardian of as a result of my parents’ deaths. He is a healthy, vibrant individual that brings a smile to the face of any person that meets him. Trust me, I can rear children a little more than “adequately.”
3. Husband hunter? Slut? Considering that I’ve been single for a good MAJORITY of my life, and was never interested in the idea of marriage (because of people like you) because I had my own goals to achieve, I don’t think that I fall into the category of husband hunter OR slut. But, think what you may.
Honorable and ancient profession? So, why don’t you link your blog and we’ll judge your life.
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Anonymous
Who gives a crap who you are dating.
I am married to a pharmacologist that is gone 5-6 weeks at a time.He runs a large hospital system in the NW right now and we reside in Texas. Our relationship has been on the rocks. I found out that his family consists of recovering and practicing alcholics shortly after I married him and belive me the apple doesnt fall far from the tree.
It doesnt really matter what people do for a occupation, he still drinks, abused me and was a porn addict. still is. He finally got tired of being around me and filed for divorce. I moved across 2 state lines to be with him and married to him in Texas, sold my house, left my family and job behind all for a pack of lies and bullshit. He never put my name on the house so now my 11 y/o and i ARE out of his house in 10 months and a 50k settlement to start over again. He still wants to do counseling but I am very weary of him ever seeing what is wrong with him and not blaming his issues or why he filed on me. He said it was because I bought a ticket , one single ticket to a music venue that I never attended. Tell me how sick that is. Anyway, yes, it is hard to drop from a 300k lifestyle to a simple one of an apt or small home ( I hope) but atleast I wont have him sabatoging my job, my serenity, my kids or anything else.
I am not even doing a complete discovery for divorce. I just want to get it over with. $$ or no $$ so good luck with your doctor. I am sure he will smear his new house or whatever he does after we divorce in my face. BUt, even though it hurts I am sure that in the long run we will be happier having what we need not what we want. Good luck
Anonymous
That is why prudent and thoughtful husband hunting is so important. Checking out the relatives in critical to successful mate selection–the old gene thing. You wouldn’t breed a 10,000 horse without checking out the blood-line for at least 3 generations–why not treat oneself with at least the same consideration.
Besides in making the decision with whom to mate, women have complete control over the genetic make up of the next generation. Your job, girls, is to make sure some men don’t procreate. If you mate with addicts and sociopaths, then you have chosen a dark future.
In making the decision whether to mate at all, women have complete control over whether there will even be a next generation. The hand that rocks the cradle (or decides that it has better things to do) rules the world.
Anonymous
What genius said this: “stupid is as stupid does?” Forest Gump?
(stupid prefers commenting on things without reading them beforehand – after all, what could stupid possibly learn by reading something?).
Resident Doctors Girlfriend
My boyfriend is a doctor. Almost done his first year as a resident. I never went out of my way to find a doctor boyfriend. We just happend to meet. I wasn’t even looking for a boyfriend. I just got out of a 11 year relationship. Why would I be looking for a new relationship??? It just happend. Funny enough I’m not even in the medical field. So, us meeting was fate. It’s been 1 1/2yrs now. It’s tough, very tough at times but I love him and he loves me. What I admire about him is his discipline and dedication because lets face it, he’s sacrificing a lot of his personal life to save lives and I love the fact he makes time for me as much as possible!!

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