Comments on: A mother kidnaps her child looking for alternative therapy http://www.kevinmd.com/blog/2006/06/mother-kidnaps-her-child-looking-for.html Tue, 14 Feb 2012 23:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Gasmanhttp://www.kevinmd.com/blog/2006/06/mother-kidnaps-her-child-looking-for.html#comment-64503 Gasman Thu, 29 Jun 2006 17:12:00 +0000 http://clients.emmense.com/kevinmd/2006/06/a-mother-kidnaps-her-child-looking-for-alternative-therapy.html#comment-64503 The center of the conflict is the child. The child cannot express his interests in selecting the best therapy to meet his future goals and wishes, so some surrogate must do this for him.<br/><br/>The word right or rights throughout the article is discussed only in regards to the mother. Nowhere are the rights of the child explicitly mentioned. We grant competent adults the right to make all sorts of choices, some of which might generally be considered foolish or downright stupid; but this child was not wishing to make a poor choice, but he was in danger of having a poor choice made for him. Mother could have taken time to explore options, such as might exists, but she needs to communicate effectively with her child's doctors and the courts. She needed to be willing to agree to a timetable of some finite 'search' for options, to be followed by surgery if no better options are found. Instead it seems she decided to throw up an obstinate wall rather than present herself as a reasonable decision maker who could be charged with the welfare of a child. The center of the conflict is the child. The child cannot express his interests in selecting the best therapy to meet his future goals and wishes, so some surrogate must do this for him.

The word right or rights throughout the article is discussed only in regards to the mother. Nowhere are the rights of the child explicitly mentioned. We grant competent adults the right to make all sorts of choices, some of which might generally be considered foolish or downright stupid; but this child was not wishing to make a poor choice, but he was in danger of having a poor choice made for him. Mother could have taken time to explore options, such as might exists, but she needs to communicate effectively with her child’s doctors and the courts. She needed to be willing to agree to a timetable of some finite ‘search’ for options, to be followed by surgery if no better options are found. Instead it seems she decided to throw up an obstinate wall rather than present herself as a reasonable decision maker who could be charged with the welfare of a child.

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